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While we know that men are easily aroused and reach orgasm more quickly and easily than women, not all are quite as sexually straightforward as many women believe.
Meeting Men’s Needs-I have no doubt that men also require the excitement and gratification derived from an emotional involvement in lovemaking. There is hardly a man who does not need to feel loved, admired and physically cherished if he is to experience the true depths of sexual pleasure with his partner. Yet far too many women tend to place the entire responsibility of initiating and orchestrating sex on their men. Traditionally, the man suggests sex and the woman either accepts or rejects him, and in this way the man usually determines how much sex a couple has. This amounts to a great deal of pressure, and many sensitive men do not really relish having such a burden. Better sex and happier couples ensue when partners feel equally free to suggest or refuse sex, and do so equally often.
Taking responsibility for suggesting sex also means that lovemaking will result more from inclination rather than obligation. Women can easily say “yes” to sex but are uninvolved. For a man, a compliant but unresponsive woman will never be as exciting or as satisfying as a woman who is involved and skilful.
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